Bonds of Time

         There are bonds we consciously make and there are some bonds which just get build with time. While we think we are in our control, most of times sooner or later we  lose this control. The result comes out to be either Friendship or Love.

         While friendship is something we start going through from early days and slowly we learn which ones to make friends and which ones not to make. For example- Stranger-bad, Cousin-good, Snake-bad, Dog-good, etc. After spending significant amount of time with that person you find that frequency of both of you is matching, so you both become good friends and later best friends. I know many of you will say that with time our friends meet new people and make new friends and eventually we lose contact, I understand it happens. I will talk about it someday later for sure :)

         But love starts even before we are born, basically when we are in womb from that time itself our mother starts loving us. We come out and see the world first time. Except a few, almost everyone is loved unconditionally by their mom, dad and siblings. So we start thinking that maybe everyone will be like them. Then obviously we keep on loving our family and maybe a few people in our life like relatives but we don't get into what is called Love with a stranger. When we become teenager and things start to change then we start thinking about things more than friendship. With time we start liking a specific person and as we get to know more and more about them we start thinking of keeping them in our lives as partner. What we fail to understand is that "Is it really love?" because there is very less difference between love and infatuation (will talk about in later post for sure ^_^). In many cases with time we realize that it was not love but alas! we already have got habit of their presence and this just gets us stuck at place where you start thinking whether you should keep that person or leave him. Its a dilemma which is quite important from the perspective of future life because if we will not leave that person  then we might just spend our life hoping that other person might develop love for us and if we let them go then we might regret that maybe we should have kept him reason being some people do take time to fall in love. We just can't decide it I understand it but I will discuss it later on this blog later.

This was the blog just about bonds. I will discuss the consequences of each later till then Take Care and Keep Smiling :)