Blind Love Series #1- Friends
So in this series we will talk about what things we ignore after getting blind in love and this is first episode.... Hope you like it :)
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If you have ever seen Pyar Ka Punchnama 2 then you might me remembering this scene. In this Chiku (centre) is sitting with her friends and discussing relationship. Let me tell you briefly what happens in this scene: In this scene Chiku is doubtful about her relationship and her friends are consoling her. In this her friends actually brainwash her to like a guy THEY liked. Guys often ignore friends of the girls they love and this creates a hell lot of more problem there.
In case when a guy falls in love then mostly his friends take party from him and talk about that girl. In many cases they check background of girl and search about previous relationships of that girl so that their friend (who has fallen in love) doesn't get hurt later. While sometimes the guy ignores his girlfriend while playing games but most cases he is not bothered by his friends. (I'm a Mechanical Engineer so I know guys much better and in my college I had more than 500 friends which helped me a lot in telling various things about relationship).
In case when girl falls in love and if shares this with her friends, this is the time trouble starts. Girls first of all look at guy and if possible try to meet in group with the boy. Then they talk to him, as well as, visually inspect him for his dressing sense, knowledge about brands, etc. and after that use a complex process (which no one knows ;P) to decide whether they like you or not. If they like you then there are chances that you will face only one problem but if they don't like you then you will face 2 problems.
Problem-1: If they like you then just know that you have passed their test. But real threat comes when your girl becomes friends with some other guy. If they started liking him more than you then they might force your girlfriend by brainwashing her. How they will do it? By reminding her of her previous fights with boyfriend and then telling everything positive about new guy. This works. How? Because when girls are emotional then they can be easily manipulated. Their rational thinking ability gets compromised and they breakup. How long it takes? Totally depends on that girl's mental strength.
Problem-1+2: If you fail their test then you are in double trouble. They already don't like you but even if girl remains with guy then the above problem has bigger impact in this case. They will keep on telling that she deserves better and this will make her feel that they are right (kind of brainwash only). And in case new guy comes then its disaster. I have been through this, so I know this but in my case her best friend (male) also got her against me. Thats when I realised my this mistake of selecting a vulnerable girl.
Conclusion: Before falling in love if possible try to know more about friends of that girl. Friends are more closer than lovers (since they have been in her life longer than you), so if they are not good then try avoiding that girl. I know, you might say that girl is nice and trustable but her friends can keep the relationship fragile and vulnerable, so even if girl is nice just don't go blindly for her. Be careful!
Till next time Take Care and Keep Smiling ^_^
If you liked it please comment to help me improve my writing and suggest me topics for future on which you would like to listen. Thank You for reading :)
(Next episode is gonna be on influence of Society, so be tuned).
In case when a guy falls in love then mostly his friends take party from him and talk about that girl. In many cases they check background of girl and search about previous relationships of that girl so that their friend (who has fallen in love) doesn't get hurt later. While sometimes the guy ignores his girlfriend while playing games but most cases he is not bothered by his friends. (I'm a Mechanical Engineer so I know guys much better and in my college I had more than 500 friends which helped me a lot in telling various things about relationship).
In case when girl falls in love and if shares this with her friends, this is the time trouble starts. Girls first of all look at guy and if possible try to meet in group with the boy. Then they talk to him, as well as, visually inspect him for his dressing sense, knowledge about brands, etc. and after that use a complex process (which no one knows ;P) to decide whether they like you or not. If they like you then there are chances that you will face only one problem but if they don't like you then you will face 2 problems.
Problem-1: If they like you then just know that you have passed their test. But real threat comes when your girl becomes friends with some other guy. If they started liking him more than you then they might force your girlfriend by brainwashing her. How they will do it? By reminding her of her previous fights with boyfriend and then telling everything positive about new guy. This works. How? Because when girls are emotional then they can be easily manipulated. Their rational thinking ability gets compromised and they breakup. How long it takes? Totally depends on that girl's mental strength.
Problem-1+2: If you fail their test then you are in double trouble. They already don't like you but even if girl remains with guy then the above problem has bigger impact in this case. They will keep on telling that she deserves better and this will make her feel that they are right (kind of brainwash only). And in case new guy comes then its disaster. I have been through this, so I know this but in my case her best friend (male) also got her against me. Thats when I realised my this mistake of selecting a vulnerable girl.
Conclusion: Before falling in love if possible try to know more about friends of that girl. Friends are more closer than lovers (since they have been in her life longer than you), so if they are not good then try avoiding that girl. I know, you might say that girl is nice and trustable but her friends can keep the relationship fragile and vulnerable, so even if girl is nice just don't go blindly for her. Be careful!
Till next time Take Care and Keep Smiling ^_^
If you liked it please comment to help me improve my writing and suggest me topics for future on which you would like to listen. Thank You for reading :)
(Next episode is gonna be on influence of Society, so be tuned).
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